Carson T. Clark shows how most of these discussions pan out. He avoids the issue if possible, knowing in general it would be fruitless and destructive.
He does a brilliant parody how those conversations go and have a look at the series of video clips he has posted up. Brilliant.
Btw… for what it is worth…I’m neither for young or old earth…I’m for the God who is before and after time… so does this make him young or old?